Mind Control is a Form of Emotional Abuse

Brainwashing Can Cause Long-Term Psychological Damage

© Karen Stephenson

Jun 11, 2009
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Individuals in dysfunctional relationships are often exposed to their partners' desire to control and change thoughts. Mind control, or brainwashing is emotional abuse.

Mind control or brainwashing is defined in the tenth edition of Merriam Webster's Collegiate Dictionary as: “a forcible indoctrination to induce someone to give up basic political, social or religious beliefs and attitudes and to accept contrasting regimented ideas.” It's also defined as a person being persuaded by propaganda or salesmanship.

University of Washington psychology professors John Gottman and Neil Jacobson, conducted an eight year study that concluded in 1998. Their findings were published in their book, When Men Batter Women, New Insights into Ending Abusive Relationships. They found that emotional abuse is more oppressive when the abuse is frequent. In their book they commented, “What men are doing with emotional abuse is almost like mind control.” Other professionals believe that mind control or brainwashing is a form of emotional abuse. Anne Woudstra, a social worker, says that when a person is exposed to frequent, long-term mind control, it is emotional abuse.

What is Mind Control?

Mind control uses subliminal techniques to control a person's actions, opinions or state of mind. Techniques may include: the use of words or language in a repetitive manner, visual stimuli, or the intentional use, misuse or deprivation of basic human needs including sleep, food or money. Usually these methods are used in such a way that the victim is unaware that mind manipulation is happening. A spouse or partner can eventually be manipulated into believing and doing whatever their partner desires.

Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 4th edition, is evidence that mind control is an orchestrated process of exploitative psychological manipulation. The DSM is a manual that is published by the American Psychiatric Association that includes all currently recognized mental health disorders.

A person who suffers long-term repeated emotional abuse eventually succumbs to incredible psychological damage. An individual may end up living their life in fear, having altered thoughts, feelings and behaviours so that it appeases the partner or spouse.

Cults

Cults are the extreme in mind control and have been a part of history for centuries and continues to be part of many societies worldwide. Dr. Margaret Singer, author of Cults in Our Midst, says that an estimated 5,000 economic, political and religious groups operate in the United States at any given time that have about 2.5 million members. Over the past few decades, cults have used tactics of coercive mind control to negatively impact millions of people.

Dr. Paul Martin, cult expert and director of Wellspring Retreat & Resource Center in Ohio, says the cult problem is so prevalent that he feels the chances of a family member joining a cult are greater than a family member catching chicken pox.

Signs of Mind Control

There are some warning signs that can indicate if a partner or spouse is trying to control their loved one such as:

  • Controlling the environment. Family members and friends are slowly being cut off to the victim until there is no communication.
  • Breaking down of self. The self-esteem levels are diminished to the point in which the victim feels they are always wrong and the partner is right.
  • A new sense of identity. The victim behaves and thinks totally different from when they first met their partner.
  • Isolation. There is little or no contact with the outside world. The victim is not allowed to go anywhere without permission and even if granted permission, there is a curfew.

Mind manipulation, thought control, brainwashing or mind control, no matter what it's called, it is the most severe form of emotional abuse anyone can survive. Regardless of it happening in the confines of an intimate relationship or in a group setting (cult), the damage is severe and the victim needs intense support and help.

Further Reading:

Satanic Ritual Abuse

Unlocking Buried Secrets


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Comments
Jun 16, 2009 4:19 PM
Guest :
I too am a victum, of NSA or other type scrpts
Aug 6, 2009 4:54 PM
Guest :
I appreciate your article. I am married to a man who was under the control of a cult, the cult world wide church of god. They have had mind control over my husband for over 40 years, I was there for 4 I told my husband we needed to go, find a new church, he agreed, its been 2 months and we have visisted 2 other churchs, my husband is having a hard time, also before I met him I was a realtor, and did ecommerce sales, he asked me to quit so we could spend more time together, now he thinks he can tell me what to do and when to do it, I love my husband very much, but feel as thou he is using his legalism on me, he gets angry and stresss if I want to go shopping, or just to go visit my own family, I have my own money, but give him all I make, and then when I want like 50.00 he makes me feel like I dont deserve any when I was the one who earned it, I do know what this is, and have asked myself is this worth staying in, I love holding my husband at nite and the feelings of being married I love to cook and garden, he does too, but I am shocked at his selfishness, and his control, I believe this all stems from the years of abuse from being in the Cult known as the World Wide Church of God, Now called Grace Communion, they say they changed, I say no they diddnt they expect there members to do as they want them, Give me your money and thats what its all about the money, the pastors expect to be treated as kings while the members do all the work, my husband wants to go back to that church, I will never go back. There still a cult and still bleeding after those who have weak minds, I once went to a conference and was surprised to discover they even give test to see how many suckers they had there, see it was based on question and if you rated a certain number you were either yellow green red or blue. Blue was the most of the people there, and blue was the color that were bigger givers, red was leaders and yellow was organizers so on... you cannot believe the stuff that is going on here, the control being used by the new church is no different then the old, see they have been conditioned like pablogs dog you know the saliva test, well this cult has it down they have been doing this a long time and the people are all vulnerable, I am sad for my husband, it is truly mind control.
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