According to the Avon Foundation, domestic violence can be displayed as psychological and emotional abuse, social abuse, financial abuse, physical abuse, and sexual abuse. Both the victim and observers can have a difficult time determining if domestic violence is occurring. Abusers also convince their victims to stay under their control. While both men and women can be victims and abusers, the abuser will be referred to as “he” and the victim as “she.” However, there are common signs that appear in abusive relationships. According to the Avon Foundation, seven possible signs include:
Verbal Abuse
Verbal abuse is one sign of domestic violence: the abuser will call the victim names and constantly criticize her. The incessant verbal abuse will make the victim feel worthless or always in the wrong. Verbal abuse can occur both in private and in public.
Bruises and Injuries
Bruises and injuries are the most visible sign of domestic violence. When asked about her injuries, the victim will not be able to explain them, or will make up excuses. The victim may also attempt to cover up any injuries with clothing, makeup or bandages.
Violent Temper
The abuser will exhibit a violent temper towards the victim. He will threaten to hurt the victim, or the people around her. The victim will be the source of the abuser's blame, and the abuser's anger will scare not only the victim, but people outside the relationship.
Controlling Behavior
Controlling behavior is another sign of domestic violence. The abuser will keep close tabs on his victim, such as constantly asking where she is and who she is with. In addition, he may call her at work throughout the day, listen to her phone calls, or even check her car mileage. The abuser may also manage the victims' finances.
Extreme Jealousy
In domestic violence, the abuser will be extreme jealous and possessive of his victim. Also, the abuser will accuse his victim of cheating on him or being unfaithful.
Isolation
As part of domestic violence, the abuser will try to isolate his victim from other people, such as friends and family. He will also stop her from going to school, work, or leaving the house. The isolation part of an abusive relationship prevents many victims from seeking help.
Emotional Changes
For many victims, they will have emotional changes due to the domestic violence. The victims will seem to be fearful or become very quiet when her abuser is present. The victim will not seem like herself to people outside of the relationship.
